Monday, October 15, 2007

Every Love Relationship Has Its Destiny

For each living human being, there are two universes. One is the physical universe that fills with billions and billions stars independent of what people think. The other universe is what people perceive in their minds. For most people, their universes include the breakfast they eat, the clothes they wear, the money they earn and so on. Occasionally a person’s universe is turned upside-down when there enters an object of affection.

I am of no exception being just one of the people. Love hit me when I was not looking for it. It brought me to an ecstasy that I had never felt before. All the little things she did seemed to be amplified a hundred times more delightful. Even with burning passion, friction is unfortunately inevitable when two persons get too close. We fought, once a great while. So, I established this no-carry-on-overnight rule to dissolve the anger before the end of the day. And I used to call it the magic of love since I saw anger easily evaporated when we forgave each other.

Little did I know that was only my perceived universe. Love on her side had long burnt up and dried out. The magic had long gone since her heart went to someone’s else. Suddenly the long walks along the river, the laughter and all the treasured moments had little meaning to her. Then I eventually realize every love relationship has its destiny, like each of the billions and billons stars above us.

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At October 16, 2007 at 10:02 AM , Blogger Hana said...

"Suddenly the long walks along the river, the laughter and all the treasured moments had little meaning to her. "
I like this.

 
At October 16, 2007 at 11:50 AM , Blogger Haricot 微豆 said...

Believers of pure 唯物主义 will argue that your "other universe" is just a stimulated chemical reaction caused by your hormone acting up and sending a signal to your brain saying you are in love. I know, it is not a very romantic notion. Intellectually though, we will romanticize (or curse) love because unlike animals we have 七情六欲 as human beings!!!

As to the end of love, time will heal. Love doesn't really die, it just becomes part of our memories. The important thing is to cherish that experience, bitter or sweet without hatred.

Finally, memory is the destiny of all love relationships. One person (usually the male) will go before the other. But that's all right, such is life :)

 
At October 16, 2007 at 11:58 AM , Blogger Haricot 微豆 said...

"... memory is the destiny of all love relationships ..."

The love relationships can also be that betwn life-long partners, mother-child, father-son, etc.

 
At October 17, 2007 at 12:33 AM , Blogger Keith said...

Hana,
Thx for dropping by. I guess it is how geeks write love story--take him a long opening from universe to the point.

 
At October 17, 2007 at 12:45 AM , Blogger Keith said...

Dear Marathoner,
Each love story takes its own course. Remo and Juliet, beautiful and tragic. Othello, jealousy and tragic. English Patient, passion and tragic. Brokeback Mountain, gay and tragic. And Cold Mountain, fatefully tragic. I love them all.

p.s. I also like When Harry Met Sally, Sleepless in Seatle and The Notebook.

 
At October 18, 2007 at 2:26 AM , Blogger Kittie Flyn said...

Interesting... I feel like I'm reading some of my own writings/ponderings/musings.

 
At October 18, 2007 at 10:20 PM , Blogger Keith said...

Kittie,
You are a gifted writer who can make insomnia interesting if you write about insomnia. I, on the other hand, still trying to get my thought comes through.

 

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